Do you ever think.. I am or they are too old to do this or that, or wear that? Are you worried because you think you will look ridiculous to others or that you will be judged?

Life is too short to worry about what others think. Yet, most or all people still make choices based on what others think. In the new world we live in with social media I would think the pressure is really on now! For some people social media may have opened a door to express their craziness or try new clothes or hairstyles that they might not have before.

Let’s dig a little deeper now. What about gray hair, thinning hair, cellulite, love handles, scars, bellies, dry skin, blemishes and pimples or any other naturally occurring part of us that makes us uniquely human and you!!!

Who says your too old for pigtails or certain styles of clothing? I think with every year you age you earn that right even more to enjoy life and express yourself!! If you choose to go to the gym to be in great shape and want to wear minimal clothing… DO IT and ROCK IT! If you don’t go to the gym and have some extra weight or cellulite and still want to wear fun clothes you’re comfortable wearing (flattering or not) DO IT and ROCK IT!! Life’s short and you could die tomorrow. Will you die thinking.. shit, I shouldn’t have worried about what others thought and should’ve wore the fun makeup or clothes!

For those people that look at you or others and quietly or outwardly judge people’s clothing or imperfections, FUCK THEM! You have one life, live your life, and hope the best for them because they clearly have some issues of their own, and it’s sad they can’t be happy for people that do what makes their heart happy and soul shine! FYI even the fittest people have cellulite, it’s normal!

I’ve realized even when people or even myself have said, “I don’t care what others think!”… lie! But, I’ve also realized some people really don’t care. I’m starting to cross that threshold. At some point I truly flipped the (dilligaf.. look it up) switch! So stop worrying about what others think and things you can’t control! Live and enjoy it!